Love, Love, Love, I could see so much about talk about love by every one and this topic has been repeatedly spoken by many people from the time of civilization. But still nobody could able to understand it clearly. I made a small effort in understanding this topic and summarized my thoughts below.
Love your self
Love every other human beingsLove God Now wht do u mean when u say I Love ?Love is the feeling of Giving and Accepting every thing with no returns. Its the Feeling of Exponential Joy & Happiness which does not ask you to do any thing in return for this feeling. It just continues to be with you once it has been triggered inside yourself.When a little baby is hungry then the best happiness for the baby is to see his/her mothers Face & gentle hug. Does the baby gives some thing in return to the mom ? Does the mom expects some thing from the baby at that time when she gives her blood as food to her baby ?They both give every thing completely to each other and expect nothing but others Joy and Happiness and feel happy about it. Now when u apply the same concept to love every one will it be practical ? If a person spit a pan or chewing gum on ur face when ur about to go to office then will u show complete love to tht person ? Extremely Impossible. But few have done it and rose to the godly status. Love God. Amazing words. Mother Teresa, Meera Bhai are few of the best example for the word Love God. But how many are there who can practice those ways now ? Do we have it in ourself ? How can they achieve it ? So we can say that they see all suffering and needy human being as there innocent children’s and they give every thing for them. They completely believe that God is there Mother of love and they should spread all love they get it from god to all possible individuals in the earth. Now What about love between a couple or lovers?
Let us try to explain this Mysterious “LOVE”.. Love is a feeling which redefines one's life. When some one is in love then that person will feel every thing around him/her is beautiful that he or she suddenly begin to see happiness in each and every thing, which they come across. Love can never take away ones freedom, if it does then its not love cuzz love Means u Trust others in giving them full freedom and u get the same trust back from ur lover.This love should be exponentially growing so tht even at ur last breath u should feel happy to see that she still lives and ur the one who is going to die and she should feel happy to see u die happily ur last breath..So This Love is one wonderful feelings which should happen to every one at least once in a life time...... Lets try to break our thoughts on love and put into practice and see wht it really means cuzz i never try to read any books to reflect others thoughts and creativity but I try to get the answers from my own experience in life .. I have been thinking about love for the past 8 yrs from my school days to till now and with out knowing wht it is i started to love few but when I came to know I could see I lost them from my life. But still I like the feeling when I say I love them and I cannot change it. Love is not a myth were no one explain. Love is very simple and every one is eligible for it.I spoke to many people who succeed in love or who call themselves as failed in love but wht I could see is those who succeed in love continue to love each other and those who claim themself as faield in love stoped at one point and realized wht they believed is not love and suddenly the love has vanished like a wax when its set with the fire of hate and ego. Why love Is blind cuzz it does not see Wht is ur materialistic value it sees u as who you are and make u trust some one beyond his current capability tht it encourages the other to achieve gr8 heights. I have experienced it ,Its a gr8 feeling. At the same time when u realize tht ur love is lost its worst than being dead cuzz U feel ur Dreams in which u had all ur faith and belief more than ur life is gone.This will destroy the faith u had about urself. This is a tough situation but one need to get out of this and feel that Life is a Very long journey and no body have the rights to stop it just cuzz the person who u have expected to come with u got down in some other station ;)
9 comments:
very nice!!
but ur wrong while saying that only if therez no xpectation... then u name it as a feeling 'love'!!
nope love xpcts a lot!! if not a lot... yet it xpcts the person loved to love him/her...
dont u say itz a love?
//Life is a Very long journey and no body have the rights to stop it just cuzz the person who u have expected to come with u got down in some other station ;)//
if this is ur opinion, u ll b travelling in the train yet u die without a companion :)
Nice exploration of diff dimensions to love... :)
Konjam teacher class edukura mari irunthalum... padika nala iruku...
on a diff note..
"This love should be exponentially growing so tht even at ur last breath u should feel happy to see that she still lives and ur the one who is going to die and she should feel happy to see u die happily ur last breath.."...
y will she be happy to see u die.. afterall she loves u too... dint get it rt.. wud u be happy if she's gonna die happily seeing u..?
The separation of true love can happen due to un-fortunate incidents like one of the lover is in the death bed. Now in this case even at this gr8 tragedy they both see the positive aspect of life i.e the person in the death bed will feel that he or she have given all the happiness to the other till there last breath. The other person will realize that she or he made her/his lover to live happily till his/her last breath. They share these untold feeling through there Tears which roll down form there sparkling eyes in those last moment which will live in one of there hearts for ever.
Love should not have expectation, If it dose then it ends up in disappointment and possessiveness. A Man or Women in love should give every thing completely and be happy in realizing that they give every thing true from there heart. The giving here comes from sub-conscious mind and it’s a progressive act i.e the person starts to give every thing he or she has as there love grows stronger. This tendency of giving every thing with out our conscious will not or should not arise until the love is mutual and true from both the side. If its true from one side and the other pretends to love then it will lead to a sudden state of Hugh expectation and possessiveness created in the mind, which was empty from these two feelings. Possessiveness in love is a strong expectation in every thing and this expectation is often used to evaluate there love. This gives an emotional out burst once when it realize the other person is not loving them and begins to destroy all the hope and strength of the person. In this state the person who had true love will feel a heart break and find fault with them. The truth here is there is nothing incomplete or faulty in there love but the fault is in choosing the right person or realizing that the other person is not showing true love.
A very good and deep explanation for LOVE.. ya..i love it :)
In most of the cases love and possessiveness are inter connected.. Some cases possessiveness will not be there,where freedom exists. Fights with possessiveness will make the relation more and more closer,for sure. It will make to realise a lot and lot :)
//if this is ur opinion, u ll b travelling in the train yet u die without a companion :)
Life is a long journey.... ;)
A Man or Women in love should give every thing completely and be happy in realizing that they give every thing true from there heart. The giving here comes from sub-conscious mind and it’s a progressive act i.e the person starts to give every thing he or she has as there love grows stronger//
Mr.mouli a gud explanation.Hats off
by the way u dont u write further.
Keep writing friend.
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